Canceled the ticket

I'm not going to China anymore.
What I'm doing will tear the family apart.
My biological parents in China told me they wish I would change my mind and not come home because my mom and dad are fighting over this issue constantly.
They are right.
I can't be that selfish.
Non-refundable ticket. Laid to waste. First time in my life I spend that large amount of money. Bravo.
Thx Ahana.
I shall do whatever makes me most happy.

Either way it's not going to be happy. I should pick the one make most people happy.

I wonder, if I have stereotypical white parents, maybe I get to do what I like instead of what they like.


Sympathy

Hello, I'm reading your blog since yesterday (I followed links from XKCD to www.ohmygauss.blogspot.com to your blog), and I can't say it leaves me unaffected.

I see myself as an half nihilist, half humanist person. I'm into sciences in general, and some parts of what you wrote found a resonance to things I felt myself. Sometimes I feel sorry for my lack of usefulness in helping other who need support but are out of reach. To counter that I try to help people close to me, but that's not why I felt I should express you my sympathy for you.

I know it may mean nothing because it's only words, but know that if it was possible for me to help you, I would gladly do, or at least try to. Why? Because I would like to be helped if I were in your situation.

Please, have a thought about this: take decisions carefully, but never have regrets, because time goes only one way.
People who cares about you may not care about what you think, say or write, they care about whether you will make decisions leading you to a life without regrets or not.

That was my very humble opinion, I don't think in terms of "true" or "false" when it's about human / emotional / subjective topics, so think of it whatever you want, just know that I'm looking forward to reading you in the future.

Bye ... Benjamin B. from France.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sympathy http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Resonance http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/impression

thx for the sympathy. I have

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thx for the sympathy.
I have no regrets now. :)

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